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Post by laffytaffy on May 19, 2016 17:18:00 GMT
I honestly think she's using this time to be away from family/friends so she can clear her head to make better judgements and to get better with whatever she's struggling with.
I highly doubt she would be hanging out with LA friends who seem to party (judging from pics) on almost a constant basis.
Her parents aren't model parents, if anything they are part of the problem. I honestly see them and Jansen as Hayden's kids because she supports all three which is sad.
So in my opinion, I think she's without the normal people in her life, and she's surrounded by counselors etc.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 18:00:45 GMT
Maybe that's also true and that's the best for her now. Who knows. But at some point I hope she returns to family and friends. Bc in the end, in the long term you can't become happy without friends and family. If only wlad would be more supportive
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 18:59:11 GMT
I think you are wrong, she loves her parents and that you can't deny it for how she speaks of her family I think the problem is not that, depression have a widely ranges and who knows...
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 19:17:48 GMT
I do think she loves her family but her parents? Not so sure. Would she really ever talk bad about them even if they were bad? I don't know.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 19:29:54 GMT
no, I think hayden's parents is not de problem , it must be something more in how she is now what it started like a PPD ii has unchained in depression and I know depression is something that it doesn't heal in 30 days
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Post by tinycho on May 19, 2016 19:43:12 GMT
no, I think hayden's parents is not de problem , it must be something more in how she is now what it started like a PPD ii has unchained in depression and I know depression is something that it doesn't heal in 30 days Hayden has been dealing with depression her entire life. I don't think we're saying her parents are the entire problem, but they have contributed. A lot. |
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 19:57:28 GMT
no, I think hayden's parents is not de problem , it must be something more in how she is now what it started like a PPD ii has unchained in depression and I know depression is something that it doesn't heal in 30 days Hayden has been dealing with depression her entire life. I don't think we're saying her parents are the entire problem, but they have contributed. A lot. Her entire life? Now I realize! Come on! |
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 20:00:42 GMT
I doubt she was depressed her whole life. But i agree her parents have not really contributed to her mental health. They made her have wrong expectiations about her life probably
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Post by tinycho on May 19, 2016 20:36:07 GMT
Maybe I should clarify.
When I say entire life, I should have said a majority of it. I don't really count so much the years a person isn't self aware of issues such as that. So from the teenage years to now. Especially since she cited having BDD as a teenager.
@ig238, We don't agree on a lot, but I feel like in this case, you hit the nail on the head about her parents and the expectations imposed on her as a kid.
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Post by Deleted on May 19, 2016 21:03:32 GMT
In any way I do think she was rather happy in the recent years before getting pregnant. In 2011-2013. I don't think she had many depression problems then. But the potential was there for sure. And once she had the child at a to early age and it turned out to be very different from how she expected it to be she got PPD. And then maybe her relationship her career etc also didn't turn the way she wanted it (plus maybe she's unhappy with her post-baby weight) and she got generally depressed now.
I hope so much she gets happy again. If feel really bad for her.
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Post by laffytaffy on May 19, 2016 22:13:05 GMT
Hayden has been dealing with depression her entire life. I don't think we're saying her parents are the entire problem, but they have contributed. A lot. Her entire life? Now I realize! Come on! Mental issues don't happen over night and PPD doesn't last for close to two years either.  Which is why she obviously has something bigger and has been struggling for a good while. Hell she did admit she had body issues as a teen. Mental breakdowns happen at weird times in life, you have an illness or traits of one and not even realize it or think you have it under control for years until something hormonal happens and then comes the huge mental breakdown that you cannot control. |
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2016 5:35:36 GMT
Yes , if you explained like that I'm totally agree, all we have our owns demons
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2016 13:05:00 GMT
I must say the closer it comes the more I feel bad about the end of Nashville. Not bc i love Nashville so much (although I will be sad if Juliette dies), but bc we got to see Hayden acting on a regular basis, plus her beautiful singing. All this will end now with an uncertain future. I don't know but this one makes me indeed very sad.
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Post by laffytaffy on May 20, 2016 17:03:45 GMT
edited, since everyone now saw.
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Post by laffytaffy on May 20, 2016 17:09:45 GMT
But I'm not judging her, we all have demons we deal with. Some of us are stronger than some, and some need intense professional help kicking whatever habits/addictions they have.
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