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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2016 23:11:23 GMT
I don´t think she´s trying to say anything to Wlad with her tweets but maybe her former Nashville friends, at least with the "Friends are chosen" tweet. I could be wrong of course but I just get that feeling.
yes that is possible
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2016 23:45:48 GMT
Hayden uses now one of the cosmopolitan pics from 2014 as profil pic. Before it was one from the glamour photoshoot from 2013
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Post by laffytaffy on Jan 29, 2016 23:50:46 GMT
I never said Wlad but you suspected I did, I said "someone" which can mean anyone. It's beyond obvious she's posting indirect messages regardless of to who or what, it's in plain sight. It's hard to be a fan of her anymore, she's become boring like Wlad.
I also think she's possibly ready to get back into the LA scene with her LA friends which she stopped hanging with as much when she got back with Wlad and made friends around Nashville, until recently.
I'm hoping she does get back to LA scene, she's always seemed happy there with her long time friends.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2016 23:59:25 GMT
I never said Wlad but you suspected I did, I said "someone" which can mean anyone. It's beyond obvious she's posting indirect messages regardless of to who or what, it's in plain sight. It's hard to be a fan of her anymore, she's become boring like Wlad. I also think she's possibly ready to get back into the LA scene with her LA friends which she stopped hanging with as much when she got back with Wlad and made friends around Nashville, until recently. I'm hoping she does get back to LA scene, she's always seemed happy there with her long time friends. Yes she has become a bit strange since her depression. But with depression and medication it's no wonder she is a bit strange in her behavior like this sudden bryan cranston obsession from one day to another. I mean she met him two weeks ago but only posts now about it. I also hope she goes back to LA and once she's back, she will be again more herself hopefully.
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Post by laffytaffy on Jan 30, 2016 0:02:31 GMT
I never said Wlad but you suspected I did, I said "someone" which can mean anyone. It's beyond obvious she's posting indirect messages regardless of to who or what, it's in plain sight. It's hard to be a fan of her anymore, she's become boring like Wlad. I also think she's possibly ready to get back into the LA scene with her LA friends which she stopped hanging with as much when she got back with Wlad and made friends around Nashville, until recently. I'm hoping she does get back to LA scene, she's always seemed happy there with her long time friends. Yesshe has become a bit strange ince her depression. But with depression and medication it's no wonder she is a bit strange in her behavior like this sudden bryan cranston obsession from one day to another. I mean she met him two weeks ago but only posts now about it. I also hope she goes back to LA and once she's back, she will be again more herself hopefully. It's super weird, I miss the Hayden from 2011-2013 and even her before 2011. I get people change, I know that but she just seemed more happy out in LA. I feel like with Scotty, we saw the real Hayden compared to how she had to maintain this 'grown woman' deal when she dated Milo and then Wlad. I feel like with Scotty, she was hanging with her friends 24/7 too and he also hung out with them as well.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 0:06:43 GMT
Yesshe has become a bit strange ince her depression. But with depression and medication it's no wonder she is a bit strange in her behavior like this sudden bryan cranston obsession from one day to another. I mean she met him two weeks ago but only posts now about it. I also hope she goes back to LA and once she's back, she will be again more herself hopefully. It's super weird, I miss the Hayden from 2011-2013 and even her before 2011. I get people change, I know that but she just seemed more happy out in LA. I feel like with Scotty, we saw the real Hayden compared to how she had to maintain this 'grown woman' deal when she dated Milo and then Wlad. I feel like with Scotty, she was hanging with her friends 24/7 too and he also hung out with them as well. But even in 2014 where she was more uptight than needed she still was quite herself. Now she seems so careless I mean she doesn't even do any stuff in ukraine anymore. And in her first relationship with wlad she was also quite herself even though she was a bit too "grown up" there as well. But she was more herslef than now. I have the feeling she might already have left wlad if kaya wasn't there. People change over the time but hayden's current change is unnatural and has nothing to do with natural maturity
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Post by laffytaffy on Jan 30, 2016 0:11:36 GMT
Even with the Ukraine thing, I feel it was forced on her end, she wanted to make her man happy by supporting his country and his people.
Just my opinion though.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 0:24:00 GMT
Even with the Ukraine thing, I feel it was forced on her end, she wanted to make her man happy by supporting his country and his people. Just my opinion though. I agree with that. I don't know if she really wanted to make him happy with this but she was influenced by him to a degree that she would do stuff mainly there. She probably didn't even realize this. But now she doesn't do anything. Plus she wore a fur vest. I know for you this wasn't a big deal. But from the point of view of an animal rights activist she betrayed her love for animals. And then she now wears long tacky nails. Also not a big deal alone, but still a small sign for a fake personality to some degree. Bc all girls i met who had long fake nails had a fitting fake personality for some reasons. Plus her even if little but still use of botox in her forehead and she somehow lacks her typical humor. All these are just small things but all together they dipict a fake personality in hayden i do not really like. I hope this changes one day. Maybe if she returns to la and settles in her life.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 3:04:48 GMT
Hayden uses now one of the cosmopolitan pics from 2014 as profil pic. Before it was one from the glamour photoshoot from 2013 Yeah, I spotted that as well. You have to remember she's back at work now in addition to dealing with her daughter, so it might take her a while to get back into the swing of things. And being a mother does mean big changes - you'll have to accept it sooner or later instead of complaining about how she isn't what you want her to be (and I'm sorry, but that is what you're doing. A lot).
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Post by laffytaffy on Jan 30, 2016 3:20:49 GMT
Hayden uses now one of the cosmopolitan pics from 2014 as profil pic. Before it was one from the glamour photoshoot from 2013 Yeah, I spotted that as well. You have to remember she's back at work now in addition to dealing with her daughter, so it might take her a while to get back into the swing of things. And being a mother does mean big changes - you'll have to accept it sooner or later instead of complaining about how she isn't what you want her to be (and I'm sorry, but that is what you're doing. A lot). Having a kid and working doesn't mean you're dead and you can't be yourself anymore. I have plenty of friends who struggled with things after having a baby but they didn't act weird or post weird things with indirect messages. Complaining or not, she's boring and became way closed off and different before even having Kaya. Now she's just weird and seems like a robot with her tweets. I don't like to worry about minor things like her body and stuff or the way she does her hair etc but I feel like her interactions come off as weird. That's just me though. I'll refrain from posting for a bit since I don't want to ruin stuff for you or anyone else who still likes her but for now, I'm personally over her.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 3:57:11 GMT
Yeah, I spotted that as well. You have to remember she's back at work now in addition to dealing with her daughter, so it might take her a while to get back into the swing of things. And being a mother does mean big changes - you'll have to accept it sooner or later instead of complaining about how she isn't what you want her to be (and I'm sorry, but that is what you're doing. A lot). Having a kid and working doesn't mean you're dead and you can't be yourself anymore. I have plenty of friends who struggled with things after having a baby but they didn't act weird or post weird things with indirect messages. Complaining or not, she's boring and became way closed off and different before even having Kaya. Now she's just weird and seems like a robot with her tweets. I don't like to worry about minor things like her body and stuff or the way she does her hair etc but I feel like her interactions come off as weird. That's just me though. I'll refrain from posting for a bit since I don't want to ruin stuff for you or anyone else who still likes her but for now, I'm personally over her. I agree with you. And generally I also don't want to complain about her hair, nails and other body stuff. I just wanted to outline that these are small but existing signs of that change. But let's forget that. Nevertheless having a baby doesn't mean she has to be dead as you say. So many women in hollywood have more than one child and still are themselves even if they have less time of course. I can understand you don't want to go on posting bc you're over her. But i can't stop talking about it, if I see she's not herself and hence not really happy otherwise there's no reason for me to stay in this forum. To share pics fanforum is defintely good enough. Sorry for those who don't like it, but nowadays (apart of posting some pics of her) there's nothing else to talk about than her problems. And this neverending no support --> support --> no support thing with wlad is not good for her and neither for kaya. That's why I pray and hope for change even if it takes a whole year. And as long as there's hope I will go on supporting her.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 15:26:49 GMT
So if you all are over her , close the forum
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Post by Deleted on Jan 30, 2016 16:40:14 GMT
I'm not over her yet. Since I still have hope. I'm just worried. And I can't stop with this. If others want to see her situation with wlad, nashville and how she has changed etc. in a more idealistic way that's ok. I'm not saying you shouldn't. But I'm not an idealist but a realist. I never said i want her to put all her effort and time into social causes again. I know she has a baby and hence less time. But she's just not herslef anymore which is not good for her or her baby (bc not being yourself is not a good example for your baby) and there are several signs and hints for that. I just want her to be at least a bit more herself again. She may never again be the super social and funny hayden from 2011-2013 but I'm sure she can find back to herself to a certain degree. Maybe like she was in 2014 where she already was a bit more uptight but still quite herself. And I don't think it's wrong to hope for this.
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Post by laffytaffy on Jan 31, 2016 5:51:43 GMT
So if you all are over her , close the forum I'm not that selfish/childish BESIDES, I don't hate her so there is no reason to. I created this forum so that we could voice our opinions though sometimes it does go overboard.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 31, 2016 14:32:10 GMT
Yes the forum should go on. I'll still post all the pics I find of hayden of course. I'm just not calling her anymore my number one favorite actress. For that she first needs to find back to herself, at least to some degree. But I'll try to support her as good as possible.
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