Hayden&Wladimir #3 We miss seeing them together!

It was but sadly they cut out the very emotional part where she was talking about PPD

She referred to wlad as husband again, like she did before and for some months now she's always wearing a small ring on her left ring finger instead of her engagement ring on all pics where you see her hand. She wears this ring on Nashville as well so I initially thought it was bc Juliette is married with Avery but she wears it also off-set. It could actually be her real wedding ring. They might be secretly married for some months now and maybe therefore the problems started in their relationship bc often with happy couples (which they seemed to be even shortly after kaya's birth)marriage can cause lots of problems bc expect certain things from each other they didn't before and might feel for wlad like a straightjacket for different reasons and hence he might try to spend less time with hayden and enjoy if possible some bachelor life. And hayden therefore is also unhappy with the situation but she doesn't want to get divorced so quickly again.
And this (PPD before and marriage problems later) causes her strange behavior. She might not want to be too often in the public to avoid the secret marriage and associated problems to come out. And wlad neither.

I mean this is just an idea. But it might be possible and explain this sudden change in their relationship plus her behavior. Maybe they where that euphoric about kaya's birth that they decided to quickly get married to make everything "perfect". I always though marriage should be something you only do after years of happy relationship as a strenghtening bond. I don't get it why some people want to get married so quickly either out of euphory or old fashioned religious believes. In so many cases it doesn't really work then. Probably wlads family told them that they couldn't accept an out of wedlock baby bc they might be very conservative (wlad himself never seemed that overly old fashioned) and therefore they quickly married when she was still pregnant and hence had no time to prepare a real wedding with many guests like hayden wanted it. And hayden also wanted her wdding to be beautiful and she didn't want to get married pregnant bc she wanted to look good on this day. She was very in love with this idea of a beautiful wedding. But maybe she had to do a rushed wedding to prevent kaya from not being accepted by an ultra-conservative orthodox family and most older people in russia and ukraine are very religious and orthodox religion seems often very narrow-minded in many points. Sorry if i sound negative but i just can't stand ultra-religious people who affect other people with their stupidity. (I'm not at all referring to normal religious people who are very tolerant) Anyways a quick-wedding while she was still pregnant might have caused hayden's PPD on the one side and later her growing unhappiness with this relationship to wlad who was most likely also very unhappy and cramped by this situation.

This is my current idea about their relationship but I might be totally wrong of course.

I have no pic here but you can trust me that she wore it in different pics I saw. As for referring to him as husband you just quoted the sentence where she did. her "husband" (Wlad) still has the beard kaya tore out of the priest's face.

Thanks for the links... maybe the "husband" thing was a slip on Hayden's part, and people in Wlad's circle don't want it out there for some reason (maybe they're annoyed that not everyone automatically calls her his girlfriend like the German media does, e.g. in a review of Until Dawn in TV Today?).

I find the secret marriage idea plausible but really hard to believe. Of course, I don't know them personally, so I in fact have no idea what I'm talking about on the grand scheme of things, but i just find that notion quite a stretch based on their relationship history and their actions in recent months.

The 'shipper in me hopes that's something that would be true, I admit that.

I would love that fairy tale ending for them, of course!

Now, in reading posts above, the theory that they had a quickie wedding and have developed a resentment factor, now that theory makes alot of sense to me. That's a very profound thought process and to me, very likely if they are in fact married.

You are reading into their relationship more!! I think they don't say nothing bc nobody has asked them directly!!

Yes agree lack of support by wlad yes, especially last month of summer bc Hayden said yesterday they were travelling this summer around europe I understand june-july